#4 YOUR CAT FEELS RESTRICTED
When you pick your cat up, you do it with good intentions. You wish to cuddle Kitty and show how much you love her.
But your embrace might still feel like a cage to your cat, especially if you tend to snuggle them close to your chest.
All cats hate it when they’re restricted and can’t go wherever they wish to go.
That’s why they despise closed doors and spend so much time scratching and meowing at you to open them.
Usually, former stray cats need far more space than cats who have never lived on the streets.
These cats need to feel that they’re in control of the situation and don’t like feeling trapped in your arms.
So, if a cat feels that you’re restricting their movements, they’ll struggle to get free for your loving embrace.
Fortunately, you can turn them into lap cats with enough patience, time, and rewards.
#5 YOUR CAT HAS HAD A NEGATIVE EXPERIENCE
Another reason why your cat hates being held is a traumatic experience previously.
While cats don’t form memories as we do, positive and negative events leave their mark and shape your cat’s behavior.
Adopted or rescued cats have a history that you can’t possibly know.
Some of those cats may have been through something that has made them afraid of people picking them or holding them.
You have to understand that it’s not only about abusive situations.
A cat who was startled by a loud sound while being held in someone’s arms might also hate being picked up and carried around.
In these situations, you can work on making your cat understand that being picked up equals good things.
However, abused or maltreated cats might never trust humans completely. That’s something you have to accept.